Dr. Baraff gives us a glimpse into the secret emotional life of the men

who come to his group. Any woman who has not understood her relationship with a man will recognize these men who courageously share their feelings with us.... If you want to know what men are thinking and feeling these days, this is mandatory reading."

-Lenore E. Walker, Ed.D., A.B.P.P.. author of Terrifying Love

"An antidote to the man-bashers...When men speak for themselves,

the similarities greatly outweigh the differences between the sexes."

-John Money, Ph.D., author of Man and Woman, Boy and Girl

"Finally, there is a book which helps both genders to understand how men feel about women, sexuality, and emotions in intimacy. Most important, women now have a chance to explore the private psycho- logical world of men."

-Audrey B. Chapman, author of Mansharing: Choice or Dilemma

"Men tell their own stories and bring a warm and compassionate understanding of their unique problems... offers optimistic avenues for change for those willing to begin a courageous journey of self- understanding."

-Bonnie R. Strickland, Ph.D., A.B.P.P., Professor of Psychology. University of Massachusetts-Amherst