They are supposed to know us by our love. But too often they know us by the way we fight. Churches split. Christian leaders argue. Relatives stop speaking to one another. All of us know the damage that can be done to people and to the cause of the gospel when conflicts arise. How can we prevent the pain, the anger and the bitterness? For over fifty years, Horace "Dit" Fenton has been watching Christians fight and watching them make peace. In this book he gathers together key principles from Scripture that can help all Christians work through doctrinal disputes and the tensions every church faces. He shows how we can keep from jumping to unwarranted conclusions but also how we should confront others when that is necessary. A book for everyone who has ever disagreed with a fellow Christian!