Most Christians have their hearts in the right place, but what many of them practice is far different from what they preach. This book explains that Christians can legitimately disagree on ways to address Land solve problems, and that both sides can still be winners. The danger and destruction come when problems are confused with conflicts.

Dr. Malony explains:

"Just because people have contradictory opinions does not mean they have a conflict. They have a problem. Conflict exists inside people, not between them. It is an inner experience. People go into conflict when they feel so personally threatened that they try to win arguments regardless of who they hurt. They have moved over the line from the stress of problem solving to the distress of personal threat."

Win/Win Relationships shows that by first resolving conflicts, then focusing on problems, Christians can be winners without getting mad, getting even, or giving in. And they can do it while allowing their adversaries to be winners too!